I’ve been married for 7 years, but I do not love my husband the same way that I used to. I mean I like him more than anyone else in the world, but there is no zing. I love him too but I don’t feel in love with him. It’s hard for me to have physical relationships with him. I don’t want to leave him. I want to fall in love with him and be physically attracted to him. Can you please help me?
Category: marriage
In-Laws, Am I Right?
My new husband’s family deals with a very dysfunctional and demanding personality who often engages in manipulation and argumentative behavior. As a new in-law to this family, being on the receiving end of that family member’s behavior has been jarring at best and damaging at worst; and we’ve only been married three months. My best responses have been to remain non-reactive, disengage and take distance… But this is very hard to do when my better half is at times consumed with how to manage the fallout. How do I respond in love, when everything in me wants to call this person out for their childish behavior and slowly phase them out of my life?
Miscarriage Heartbroken
During my pregnancy my husband was awful to me. We fight a lot and it ended up in me losing the baby. He is a good husband and this fighting only started when I found out I was pregnant. He supported me throughout the grieving process but I started to lose interest in my marriage. Just when I was able to fall in love with my husband again I fell in love with another man.
Divorce with Regret
Since my ex-husband’s wife became critically ill, he started reaching out to me for support and just to talk. I am thinking he is letting me know that if something happens to his wife he wants us to be together again. Are my thoughts just wishful thinking or is he giving me subtle hints?
Lost Desire for My Husband
After our son’s birth I lost my sexual desire for my husband and haven’t been able to get it back. Now it’s several years later and I’m even beginning to flirt with other men. I have never cheated on him but I don’t know what to do.
No More Kids Please
I am a 37-year old woman with 2 children and my new fiancé wants to have more children once we get married. Can I say no?
Facebook Stalking His Ex-Girlfriend
I unrightfully invaded my husband’s internet history and found a ton of visits to his ex-girlfriend’s facebook and instagram. What do I do now?
Helpless Husband
I’m a stay at home housewife and take care of my mother and my husband’s mother including cooking, cleaning, and shopping for them. My husband will not help me at all, even a little bit.
Sexless Marriage
I’m a fit and young woman and yet my husband doesn’t want to have sex with me. We had great sex when we were dating but now 3 years into our marriage he has changed.
22 years and now what
My husband cheated on me with a younger woman and told me that he wasn’t attracted to me anymore. Then, he told me that he wanted to stay together.
2 Women, Big Problems
After my wife and I separated, I found new love. Now my wife wants to work things out and I’m torn up about what do do. How do you decide to return to your marriage (and children) or to your new love?
Spoiling Grandchildren is Causing Marriage Problems
I would rather spend money on my grandchildren than on myself but my wife isn’t having it. How do I convince her that giving to my family is a good thing?
I Want My Husband Back
My husband’s father and best friend both died suddenly in the past 2 years and my husband hasn’t been the same since. I’ve tried to be patient and supportive but he’s taking it out on me and our daughters.
Sex Site Betrayal
I am 2 months into marriage and I found out that my husband has been secretly visiting an online sex hookup website. I am devastated and angry, but I don’t even know what to say.
Stepmother in Doubt
My husband is a puppet to his “spoiled rotten” daughters and I get thrown to the side. How do I take back control?
Short Sighted Girlfriend
I am certain I want to be with her and marry her someday but she doesn’t want to promise me anything.
Helpless in My Marriage
I feel desperate to leave my marriage but feel helpless to do anything. How can I get myself out of here?
Wife Seeks Experimentation
My wife of 8 years wants to experiment with women. I want to go along with it and make her happy but I’m feeling left out.
Smoking Fetish
My husband has an obsession/fetish when a woman smokes cigarettes. He fantasizes about me smoking ALL DAY, EVERY DAY.
My Wife is Flippant with Finances
My wife is careless with finances, which has paralyzed the love in our marriage. We have tried counseling to no success in the past. What else can I do?
Escaping Control in Emotional Affair
My controlling and abusive husband led me to find attention from someone else. Now what do I do?
Conflicted about Tying the Knot
My boyfriend of 6 years is ready to get married and have kids. I’m not sure?
Wife Trying to Forget the Impossible
Before my husband and I got married, he slept with my sister. I found out when I found the pictures.
Unloved Wife
My husband is passionate about watching football and hunting and loves spending time with the kids but I seem to be his last priority
Husband in Doubt
My wife had an abortion before we were together. She told me right from the start and I thought I was over it, but it keeps eating at me. How can I let this go before it destroys our marriage?
Spouse of Overspender
We have no money in the bank and my husband keeps spending. How do I get him to start saving?
Wedding Doubts
During an argument my fiancé said that we should call off the wedding. I’m hurt and scared. Can I still trust him?