Dear Hoopers

Helpless Husband

I'm a stay at home housewife and take care of my mother and my husband's mother including cooking, cleaning, and shopping for them. My husband will...

Broken Heart Lifestyle

Hello! I’m 40 and full of energy. I’m growing my own company and doing yoga and running with my dogs. I have been in love four...

Fearful of Drug Past

When I met my partner and we shared our past I knew we were different. He had been into drugs and weed until he hit 30,...

Overweight Comments

Before even saying "good morning" to me, the first text I get from him now is, "Have you been to the gym today?" and makes me...

Bonus Mom to an Infant

I fell in love with a man going through a divorce. Then I found out that his soon to be ex-wife was pregnant. Fast forward and...

Sleeping with my Sexually Confused Coworker

My straight coworker slept with me on a work trip and things have been confusing ever since.

Dreaming in Distress

Dear Hoopers support a man thinking of an ex in his dreams

To Baby or Not To Baby

We are sixty thousand in debt but want to have a baby. Should we?

Why Drake’s Mom Wants You to Stop Being So Distrustful

Ms. Graham discusses that while paranoia and skepticism are normal emotions for someone going through his life experiences, these emotions have consequences too.

Faith, Family, and Future Confusion

In all of our discussions about how to raise future children, we came to the agreement that they would be raised with "both sides". After he...

S-Town: A Podcast for our Mental Health

S-Town allows us to enter one man’s life in a way that might save our own. John McLemore was a gift to his world and to...

More Plastic

Dear Hoopers counsel a young woman addicted to plastic surgery

Too Much Food

Dear Hoopers advise a young lady struggling with binge eating

Intimate Insecurity

Dear Hoopers support a young woman facing the pains of her early life trauma

Depressed Messages from a Struggling Soldier

My veteran brother-in-law is struggling with depression and suicidal thoughts. What do I say when he reaches out to me?

Overly Negative Friend is Hurting My Mental Health

I have a friend that I love dearly but her constant negativity is dragging me down

Unloved Wife

My husband is passionate about watching football and hunting and loves spending time with the kids but I seem to be his last priority

Dreaming in Distress

Dear Hoopers support a man thinking of an ex in his dreams

Crazy and Obsessed

An obsession over a guy bonded me and my girlfriend together. Now that he's gone, how do we talk about anything else?

To Baby or Not To Baby

We are sixty thousand in debt but want to have a baby. Should we?

Miscarriage Heartbroken

During my pregnancy my husband was awful to me. We fight a lot and it ended up in me losing the baby. He is a good...

Cosigned Alone

My boyfriend talked me into sharing a bigger apartment with him and then broke up with me. Now I'm stuck alone and paying for an apartment...

Long Distance Fear

Faith, Family, and Future Confusion

We Lost our Zing

Partner’s Sexual Guilt

Dad is a Third Wheel

I Was the Other Woman and I Didn’t Know It

In-Laws, Am I Right?

Miscarriage Heartbroken

My Girlfriend Broke Up With Me But We Still Live Together

Fighting for Family

Depressed Relationship