Dear Hoopers

Virgin Boyfriend wants to Sleep Around

My boyfriend thinks that I should give him permission to sleep with other women because he lost his virginity to me. Isn’t this worse than being...

Cheated and Chased

My boyfriend of 6 months drunkenly initiated a kiss with a random girl at a party. His friend walked in and interrupted them. I broke up...

Why Drake’s Mom Wants You to Stop Being So Distrustful

Ms. Graham discusses that while paranoia and skepticism are normal emotions for someone going through his life experiences, these emotions have consequences too.

Political Differences

I get nervous every time my boyfriend and I watch a TV show and a topic of any political nature comes up. It's not that he's...

Next Door Concern

Dear Hoopers give counsel on how to navigate a noisy neighbor with concerns of partner violence

Walking on Eggshells

Even though we've dated for 4 years my boyfriend still has a habit of bringing up his ex-girlfriends on a regular basis. I get really mad...

Dead End

After my breakup from a serious relationship, I found a new guy during my "finding myself" phase. At first we said that we would take things...

Is It Me?

It seems that every time I think I have met someone great, they ghost "disappear without word" on me all of a sudden. What am I...

High School Reunion Love

I haven't been infatuated with any boyfriend the way I was with my high school boyfriend. Now it's time for my 10 year reunion and we're...

Depressed Relationship

My boyfriend has depression and says that he should take meds but doesn't. He's ashamed of his mental illness and claims that pills would only reaffirm...