Dear Hoopers

Lost Boyfriend

My boyfriend quit his job and now he wants to become a nurse like me. I'm not saying he can't do it but he seems lost....

Bonus Mom to an Infant

I fell in love with a man going through a divorce. Then I found out that his soon to be ex-wife was pregnant. Fast forward and...

Sexless Marriage

I'm a fit and young woman and yet my husband doesn't want to have sex with me. We had great sex when we were dating but...

To Crush or Not

My crush is a "f*ckboy" and I don't want to be hurt. Should I date my guy friend instead?

Long Distance Fear

After my boyfriend and I went to different colleges, he hooked up with other girls since he didn't think we were "exclusive." We're very much back...

Next Door Concern

Dear Hoopers give counsel on how to navigate a noisy neighbor with concerns of partner violence

My Girlfriend Broke Up With Me But We Still Live Together

My girlfriend broke up with me about 5 months ago, but we have decided to live together for the time being until we sell our house...

Invisible Girl

Sometimes I just feel so invisible with my "boyfriend." Why does he have to seek other girls' attention when I give him my 150%? I've always...

Confused and Cautious

My husband just got a 2nd DUI and won't stop drinking. What can I do?

Intimate Insecurity

Dear Hoopers support a young woman facing the pains of her early life trauma

Listless

Dear Hoopers energize a man struggling with apathy

Friend in a Funk

My friend hasn't been herself lately and I'm worried that she's struggling with depression. How can I reach out without prying?

S-Town: A Podcast for our Mental Health

S-Town allows us to enter one man’s life in a way that might save our own. John McLemore was a gift to his world and to...

Smoking Fetish

My husband has an obsession/fetish when a woman smokes cigarettes. He fantasizes about me smoking ALL DAY, EVERY DAY.

Depressed Relationship

My boyfriend has depression and says that he should take meds but doesn't. He's ashamed of his mental illness and claims that pills would only reaffirm...

Hopeless to Gaming

What do you do when your boyfriend loves gaming more than you?

Pregnancy Feelings

I'm pregnant and should be happy, but I find myself unusually sad. Is this normal?

Veggie Parents

My neighbors gave my vegetarian son a burger. I have a problem with this.

Helpless Husband

I'm a stay at home housewife and take care of my mother and my husband's mother including cooking, cleaning, and shopping for them. My husband will...