I’ve been married for 7 years, but I do not love my husband the same way that I used to. I mean I like him more than anyone else in the world, but there is no zing. I love him too but I don’t feel in love with him. It’s hard for me to have physical relationships with him. I don’t want to leave him. I want to fall in love with him and be physically attracted to him. Can you please help me?
I finally found the man that I want to marry. He’s kind, considerate and we work very well together. However last week I found out he has slept with prostitutes in the past. Some traumatic stuff happened to him in his younger years and I think it sort of tipped him over the edge and I don’t really think he thought much about others. He slept with prostitutes 3 times during his 20s. However, he also slept with a prostitute only 18 months ago, in the Philippines, which I have massive issues with as the women there aren’t exactly given a lot of choice. He’s not proud about it, he’s deeply regretful and doesn’t try to excuse any of it.
I had a 4-month affair that led to the birth of a son in addition to the 5 children that I already share with my partner of 15 years. I’m trying to figure out how to have both fathers to my children without losing them.
I can’t get past the fact that he’s slept with so many woman. I think about it when we are being intimate and every woman I see I ask myself if she’s one of them.
After our son’s birth I lost my sexual desire for my husband and haven’t been able to get it back. Now it’s several years later and I’m even beginning to flirt with other men. I have never cheated on him but I don’t know what to do.
My boyfriend thinks that I should give him permission to sleep with other women because he lost his virginity to me. Isn’t this worse than being cheated on?
I’m a fit and young woman and yet my husband doesn’t want to have sex with me. We had great sex when we were dating but now 3 years into our marriage he has changed.
My husband cheated on me with a younger woman and told me that he wasn’t attracted to me anymore. Then, he told me that he wanted to stay together.
I am 2 months into marriage and I found out that my husband has been secretly visiting an online sex hookup website. I am devastated and angry, but I don’t even know what to say.
I was with my past boyfriend/ fiancé for 7 years. I loved him to pieces and we were best friends. My only complaint was his lack of emotion. I had seen him cry one time and I don’t even know if it was actually a tear. There may have been something in his eye. He was stone cold.
My wife of 8 years wants to experiment with women. I want to go along with it and make her happy but I’m feeling left out.
My husband has an obsession/fetish when a woman smokes cigarettes. He fantasizes about me smoking ALL DAY, EVERY DAY.
My boyfriend’s interest in sex is gone and he blames it on his depression.
My boyfriend wants to have other partners in our relationship. I feel violated by this idea but I also love him deeply.
I think my coworker is cheating on her husband with someone at work. I wish it was with me.
When I found old sex videos on my boyfriend’s phone, I was upset. When he said he would delete them but didn’t, I was livid. But how can I not forgive him when we have a child due in 4 days?
I’ve been confused about my sexuality since I was 15. I love being with women but I can only see myself marrying a man.
My ex-boyfriend says he only wants a booty call. But I want a relationship. Should I sleep with him?
My fiancé sent a dick pic to another woman online. Should I let it go?
Before my husband and I got married, he slept with my sister. I found out when I found the pictures.
My straight coworker slept with me on a work trip and things have been confusing ever since.
Last Saturday night was a blur for me and I ended up in my guy friend’s bed. I don’t know what happened but I want to set things straight with him.
My husband is passionate about watching football and hunting and loves spending time with the kids but I seem to be his last priority
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