I’ve been married for 7 years, but I do not love my husband the same way that I used to. I mean I like him more than anyone else in the world, but there is no zing. I love him too but I don’t feel in love with him. It’s hard for me to have physical relationships with him. I don’t want to leave him. I want to fall in love with him and be physically attracted to him. Can you please help me?
Category: Sex
Partner’s Sexual Guilt
I finally found the man that I want to marry. He’s kind, considerate and we work very well together. However last week I found out he has slept with prostitutes in the past. Some traumatic stuff happened to him in his younger years and I think it sort of tipped him over the edge and I don’t really think he thought much about others. He slept with prostitutes 3 times during his 20s. However, he also slept with a prostitute only 18 months ago, in the Philippines, which I have massive issues with as the women there aren’t exactly given a lot of choice. He’s not proud about it, he’s deeply regretful and doesn’t try to excuse any of it.
Behind the Back Daddy
I had a 4-month affair that led to the birth of a son in addition to the 5 children that I already share with my partner of 15 years. I’m trying to figure out how to have both fathers to my children without losing them.
Struggling with my Partner’s Sexual Past
I can’t get past the fact that he’s slept with so many woman. I think about it when we are being intimate and every woman I see I ask myself if she’s one of them.
Lost Desire for My Husband
After our son’s birth I lost my sexual desire for my husband and haven’t been able to get it back. Now it’s several years later and I’m even beginning to flirt with other men. I have never cheated on him but I don’t know what to do.
Virgin Boyfriend wants to Sleep Around
My boyfriend thinks that I should give him permission to sleep with other women because he lost his virginity to me. Isn’t this worse than being cheated on?
Sexless Marriage
I’m a fit and young woman and yet my husband doesn’t want to have sex with me. We had great sex when we were dating but now 3 years into our marriage he has changed.
22 years and now what
My husband cheated on me with a younger woman and told me that he wasn’t attracted to me anymore. Then, he told me that he wanted to stay together.
Sex Site Betrayal
I am 2 months into marriage and I found out that my husband has been secretly visiting an online sex hookup website. I am devastated and angry, but I don’t even know what to say.
Emotionless Fiancé led to Affair
I was with my past boyfriend/ fiancé for 7 years. I loved him to pieces and we were best friends. My only complaint was his lack of emotion. I had seen him cry one time and I don’t even know if it was actually a tear. There may have been something in his eye. He was stone cold.
Wife Seeks Experimentation
My wife of 8 years wants to experiment with women. I want to go along with it and make her happy but I’m feeling left out.
Smoking Fetish
My husband has an obsession/fetish when a woman smokes cigarettes. He fantasizes about me smoking ALL DAY, EVERY DAY.
Loss of Libido
My boyfriend’s interest in sex is gone and he blames it on his depression.
Polyamorous Partner
My boyfriend wants to have other partners in our relationship. I feel violated by this idea but I also love him deeply.
Confused by Cheating Coworker
I think my coworker is cheating on her husband with someone at work. I wish it was with me.
Attachment to Old Sex Videos
When I found old sex videos on my boyfriend’s phone, I was upset. When he said he would delete them but didn’t, I was livid. But how can I not forgive him when we have a child due in 4 days?
Sexuality Confusion
I’ve been confused about my sexuality since I was 15. I love being with women but I can only see myself marrying a man.
Booty Call on Hold
My ex-boyfriend says he only wants a booty call. But I want a relationship. Should I sleep with him?
Dick Pics Got Me Stressed
My fiancé sent a dick pic to another woman online. Should I let it go?
Wife Trying to Forget the Impossible
Before my husband and I got married, he slept with my sister. I found out when I found the pictures.
Sleeping with my Sexually Confused Coworker
My straight coworker slept with me on a work trip and things have been confusing ever since.
Blurry Saturday Night
Last Saturday night was a blur for me and I ended up in my guy friend’s bed. I don’t know what happened but I want to set things straight with him.
Unloved Wife
My husband is passionate about watching football and hunting and loves spending time with the kids but I seem to be his last priority
Hints of Infidelity
Dear Hoopers encourage a daughter who is concerned about her father’s recent phone call
Dreaming in Distress
Dear Hoopers support a man thinking of an ex in his dreams
Eternal Bachelor
Dear Hoopers advise a man playing quite the game of serial dating