I just started dating this guy I’ve known for a while. He’s really sweet, but he’s already saying that he loves me and it’s really freaking me out.
“I Love You” Too Soon
Category: Relationships
Emotionless Fiancé led to Affair
I was with my past boyfriend/ fiancé for 7 years. I loved him to pieces and we were best friends. My only complaint was his lack of emotion. I had seen him cry one time and I don’t even know if it was actually a tear. There may have been something in his eye. He was stone cold.
DM Drama
I think my boyfriend is cheating on me, but should I trust the other woman warning me through my DMs or my boyfriend?
Secret Photos
I found 47 secret nude photos that my boyfriend took of his female roommate. When I confronted him all he could say was “he didn’t know why” he took them.
The Tyranny of “How are you?”
When I moved to Chicago several years ago I started noticing people greet me with the question, “How are you?” (or “How is it going?”). While at first this was a seemingly innocuous question, the more I answered this question flippantly or half-heartedly the more that I began to struggle with the intention behind the question.
Why Don’t Boys Like Me
My friends and family tell me that I’m pretty but I never feel that way. So why does every boy I like never like me back?
Short Sighted Girlfriend
I am certain I want to be with her and marry her someday but she doesn’t want to promise me anything.
Why Drake’s Mom Wants You to Stop Being So Distrustful
Ms. Graham discusses that while paranoia and skepticism are normal emotions for someone going through his life experiences, these emotions have consequences too.
Helpless in My Marriage
I feel desperate to leave my marriage but feel helpless to do anything. How can I get myself out of here?
Desperately Trying to Help
He said he needs time to heal his broken heart. I care for him greatly and don’t want him suffering from what this girl did to him. What can I do to help?
Struggling to Trust
My boyfriend is the most attractive guy I’ve ever met and our connection in bed is unreal. The trouble is that he’s a huge flirt.
Loss of Libido
My boyfriend’s interest in sex is gone and he blames it on his depression.
Polyamorous Partner
My boyfriend wants to have other partners in our relationship. I feel violated by this idea but I also love him deeply.
Afraid of Risking It All
I have strong feelings for my good guy friend. The only problem is that he already has a girlfriend.
My Wife is Flippant with Finances
My wife is careless with finances, which has paralyzed the love in our marriage. We have tried counseling to no success in the past. What else can I do?
Confused by Cheating Coworker
I think my coworker is cheating on her husband with someone at work. I wish it was with me.
Attachment to Old Sex Videos
When I found old sex videos on my boyfriend’s phone, I was upset. When he said he would delete them but didn’t, I was livid. But how can I not forgive him when we have a child due in 4 days?
Saying Goodbye to Someone I Love
I still love my boyfriend but after he threw his son’s toy at my head, I knew that it was time to say goodbye
Sexuality Confusion
I’ve been confused about my sexuality since I was 15. I love being with women but I can only see myself marrying a man.
Lost Boyfriend
My boyfriend quit his job and now he wants to become a nurse like me. I’m not saying he can’t do it but he seems lost. What can I do?
Long Distance Worry
My boyfriend is about to start traveling long distances for work. I love him but I’m worried that his time away will break us apart.
Overly Negative Friend is Hurting My Mental Health
I have a friend that I love dearly but her constant negativity is dragging me down
My Beautiful Boyfriend and My Racist Mother
I can finally say I’ve found my prince charming. The only problem is that he’s black and my mom is pretty racist.
Downstairs Visitor Has Me Worried
When I went to visit my boyfriend last weekend he had a lady friend crashing downstairs. He said she was just a friend but I’m nervous.
Drinking Drama
Every time my boyfriend goes out drinking, he starts drama and I never know if he is going to make it home safely. Is there any way to slow him down?
Booty Call on Hold
My ex-boyfriend says he only wants a booty call. But I want a relationship. Should I sleep with him?
Escaping Control in Emotional Affair
My controlling and abusive husband led me to find attention from someone else. Now what do I do?
Dick Pics Got Me Stressed
My fiancé sent a dick pic to another woman online. Should I let it go?
Give Me a Heart of Stone
I want to be single after a difficult break up so I can focus on myself and my son. But there is a nice guy who is interested in me?!
Crazy and Obsessed
An obsession over a guy bonded me and my girlfriend together. Now that he’s gone, how do we talk about anything else?
Conflicted about Tying the Knot
My boyfriend of 6 years is ready to get married and have kids. I’m not sure?
Worthy and Torn
I know I’m high-maintenance and I also know I’m worthy of love and my needs being met.
Wife Trying to Forget the Impossible
Before my husband and I got married, he slept with my sister. I found out when I found the pictures.
Leave Out the Only Child Mentality
My boyfriend can often times be irresponsible but he has helped me to slow down and smell the roses. How can I get him to be responsible like me?
Dropped for Another Woman
My boyfriend has been hanging out and texting with another woman. When I texted her to get her to stop, he broke up with me. What?
Stumbling Over Words of Condolence
I stumbled over expressing my condolences and feel like I made things worse. Should I reach back out to try again?
Unloved Wife
My husband is passionate about watching football and hunting and loves spending time with the kids but I seem to be his last priority
FOMO Has Me in a Frenzy
I have a terrible case of FOMO and it is really taking a toll on me.
Husband in Doubt
My wife had an abortion before we were together. She told me right from the start and I thought I was over it, but it keeps eating at me. How can I let this go before it destroys our marriage?
Don’t Facebook My Baby
My sister posted some nude photos of my baby to facebook. I know she regularly posts photos of her children but I just don’t feel comfortable with it.
MIA Roommate
My roommate has been sketchy the past few weeks and he’s a month behind on rent. How can I get him to do his part?
Drunk Driving Roommate
My roommate won’t stop drinking and driving. I think she’s going to hurt herself or someone else and I don’t know what to do.
Discarded Girlfriend
My boyfriend adores me in private but leaves me by the wayside in public. How can I get him to be the same person when we’re going out?
Too Sensitive for Therapy
Negative comments mess me up for days and I’m afraid it is sabotaging my relationship. I want to go to therapy but am afraid I will be too sensitive
Daughter of a Step-Monster
My new stepmother is pulling my father away from me. I want to be in his life but I regret every minute I’m around her.
Buying Time for Babies
I’m in my late 30s and I haven’t had children yet. My boyfriend says that he wants to have children but I’m beginning to have my doubts.
Betrayed by Bestie
One of my best friends started dating my ex-boyfriend just a few weeks after he broke up with me. Now she wants to be back in my life.
Girlfriend vs. Vacation
I want a vacation for just the two of us. My girlfriend wants to take a long trip to introduce me to her family. Help!
High School Reunion Love
I haven’t been infatuated with any boyfriend the way I was with my high school boyfriend. Now it’s time for my 10 year reunion and we’re both back in town. Should I go after him?
Wedding Doubts
During an argument my fiancé said that we should call off the wedding. I’m hurt and scared. Can I still trust him?