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Weighty Comment

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From Sex to Silence

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Drunk Driving Roommate

My roommate won't stop drinking and driving. I think she's going to hurt herself or someone else and I don't know what to do.

Dead End

After my breakup from a serious relationship, I found a new guy during my "finding myself" phase. At first we said that we would take things...

Downstairs Visitor Has Me Worried

When I went to visit my boyfriend last weekend he had a lady friend crashing downstairs. He said she was just a friend but I'm nervous....

Bad Apples of Online Dating

I had a bad blind date experience from an online dating site and am tainted by the experience. How do I avoid another bad apple? ...

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Dear Hoopers encourage a husband to find safe space when his marriage becomes too toxic

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Dear Hoopers counsel a young woman addicted to plastic surgery

Introvert Alone Time Causes Conflict

My boyfriend thinks I don't love him when I want time alone and is very critical of me for doing so. Is this reasonable for me...

Smoking Fetish

My husband has an obsession/fetish when a woman smokes cigarettes. He fantasizes about me smoking ALL DAY, EVERY DAY.

Hopeless to Gaming

What do you do when your boyfriend loves gaming more than you?

Relationships

Social Media Hermit

My boyfriend doesn't like social media and has even made me take posts and pictures about him down. Why is he hiding me from the world?

Dad is a Third Wheel

My boyfriend (I’ll call Jeff) and I have been together for 7 years, and started dating at 18. We both live with our parents, and recently...

Broken Heart Lifestyle

Hello! I’m 40 and full of energy. I’m growing my own company and doing yoga and running with my dogs. I have been in love four...

Confused by Cheating Coworker

I think my coworker is cheating on her husband with someone at work. I wish it was with me.

Pregnancy Feelings

I'm pregnant and should be happy, but I find myself unusually sad. Is this normal?

Happy But No Butterflies

It's just that neither of us ever experienced the whole "butterflies" crush thing towards each other.

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I Want to Help

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