Dear Hoopers

Suspicious Spouse

I think my wife may be using drugs behind my back. I have found suspicious traces here and there but nothing definitive. I don't want to...

Worried and Concerned Mom

Dear Hoopers provide advice to a mom who is worried that her daughter is following her husband's steps into drug use

Intimate Insecurity

Dear Hoopers support a young woman facing the pains of her early life trauma

Late To Work

Dear Hoopers encourage a young employee who always seems to be late to work

Worthy and Torn

I know I'm high-maintenance and I also know I'm worthy of love and my needs being met.

Boyfriend vs. Friends

I love my boyfriend and the way that I feel around him but my friends say that he is emotionally abusive and manipulative. Should I listen...

Invisible Girl

Sometimes I just feel so invisible with my "boyfriend." Why does he have to seek other girls' attention when I give him my 150%? I've always...

Discarded Girlfriend

My boyfriend adores me in private but leaves me by the wayside in public. How can I get him to be the same person when we're...

Why Drake’s Mom Wants You to Stop Being So Distrustful

Ms. Graham discusses that while paranoia and skepticism are normal emotions for someone going through his life experiences, these emotions have consequences too.

Overboard Father

I want to keep my kids in line but I'm worried that I'm becoming aggressive. How can I teach my kids discipline without going overboard?

Friend in a Funk

My friend hasn't been herself lately and I'm worried that she's struggling with depression. How can I reach out without prying?

1-2-3-4-5

Dear Hoopers advise a man struggling with obsessions and compulsions

Criticized

Dear Hoopers encourage a husband to find safe space when his marriage becomes too toxic

Too Sensitive for Therapy

Negative comments mess me up for days and I'm afraid it is sabotaging my relationship. I want to go to therapy but am afraid I will...

Too Much Food

Dear Hoopers advise a young lady struggling with binge eating

Pregnancy Feelings

I'm pregnant and should be happy, but I find myself unusually sad. Is this normal?

Helpless Husband

I'm a stay at home housewife and take care of my mother and my husband's mother including cooking, cleaning, and shopping for them. My husband will...