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  • Long Distance Fear

    Dating, Relationships

  • Faith, Family, and Future Confusion

    Family, Relationships

  • We Lost our Zing

    marriage, Relationships, Sex

  • Partner’s Sexual Guilt

    Relationships, Sex

  • Dad is a Third Wheel

    Family, Relationships

  • I Was the Other Woman and I Didn’t Know It

    Guys, Relationships, Unhealthy Attraction

  • In-Laws, Am I Right?

    Family, marriage, Relationships

  • Miscarriage Heartbroken

    marriage, Relationships, Unhealthy Attraction

  • My Girlfriend Broke Up With Me But We Still Live Together

    Home, Relationships

  • Fighting for Family

    Family, Relationships


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My Wife is Flippant with Finances

My wife is careless with finances, which has paralyzed the love in our marriage. We have tried counseling to no success in the past. What else...

Fighting for Family

My boyfriend will soon become my fiancé, and although our relationship is mostly wonderful, there is one hurdle I hope to cross. My boyfriend hates my...

Drinking Drama

Every time my boyfriend goes out drinking, he starts drama and I never know if he is going to make it home safely. Is there any...

To Crush or Not

My crush is a "f*ckboy" and I don't want to be hurt. Should I date my guy friend instead?

Bad Apples of Online Dating

I had a bad blind date experience from an online dating site and am tainted by the experience. How do I avoid another bad apple? ...

Are We Friends or Are We More

He told me that he couldn't be in a relationship because he had "a lot of personal things to figure out." Now we're hanging out again...

Painful Potential

I was injured in a car accident two years ago, which developed into chronic pain. Now this chronic pain is costing my job...

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Tongue Tied

I’ve been having trouble communicating with my boyfriend for a while now. I'm the kind of person who, when something upsets me, I need time to...

Crazy and Obsessed

An obsession over a guy bonded me and my girlfriend together. Now that he's gone, how do we talk about anything else?

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Dear Hoopers counsel a young woman addicted to plastic surgery

Introvert Alone Time Causes Conflict

My boyfriend thinks I don't love him when I want time alone and is very critical of me for doing so. Is this reasonable for me...

Overly Negative Friend is Hurting My Mental Health

I have a friend that I love dearly but her constant negativity is dragging me down

Friend in a Funk

My friend hasn't been herself lately and I'm worried that she's struggling with depression. How can I reach out without prying?

Criticized

Dear Hoopers encourage a husband to find safe space when his marriage becomes too toxic

Hopeless to Gaming

What do you do when your boyfriend loves gaming more than you?

Relationships

My Wife is Flippant with Finances

My wife is careless with finances, which has paralyzed the love in our marriage. We have tried counseling to no success in the past. What else...

Emotionless Fiancé led to Affair

I was with my past boyfriend/ fiancé for 7 years. I loved him to pieces and we were best friends. My only complaint was his lack...

Struggling with my Partner’s Sexual Past

I can't get past the fact that he's slept with so many woman. I think about it when we are being intimate and every woman I...

“I Love You” Too Soon

I just started dating this guy I've known for a while. He's really sweet, but he's already saying that he loves me and it's really freaking...

To Baby or Not To Baby

We are sixty thousand in debt but want to have a baby. Should we?

Betrayed by Bestie

One of my best friends started dating my ex-boyfriend just a few weeks after he broke up with me. Now she wants to be back in...

Work

Broke Intern

Lost Boyfriend

Late To Work

The Tyranny of “How are you?”

Teeth Grinder

Confused by Cheating Coworker

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