Dear Hoopers

Suspicious Spouse

I think my wife may be using drugs behind my back. I have found suspicious traces here and there but nothing definitive. I don't want to...

Attachment to Old Sex Videos

When I found old sex videos on my boyfriend's phone, I was upset. When he said he would delete them but didn't, I was livid. But...

Young and Desperate

I'm a 22 year old college senior and I am completely in love with one of my professors, who is probably twice my age. I know...

22 years and now what

My husband cheated on me with a younger woman and told me that he wasn't attracted to me anymore. Then, he told me that he wanted...

More Than Friends

My boyfriend said that he didn't want a relationship anymore but now we still do all the things we used to before. We hook up, cuddle,...

Broken Heart Lifestyle

Hello! I’m 40 and full of energy. I’m growing my own company and doing yoga and running with my dogs. I have been in love four...

Addicted to Destruction

I think there is something wrong with me, but I've noticed a weird pattern that consists of me pushing good guys away from me and clinging...

Behind the Back Daddy

I had a 4-month affair that led to the birth of a son in addition to the 5 children that I already share with my partner...

Escaping Control in Emotional Affair

My controlling and abusive husband led me to find attention from someone else. Now what do I do?

Toxic Mom

My mother is toxic and our relationship was always unhealthy. But since my father passed away I'm feeling pulled to reconnect. Should I?

Hopeless to Gaming

What do you do when your boyfriend loves gaming more than you?

Confused and Cautious

My husband just got a 2nd DUI and won't stop drinking. What can I do?

Depression Cutting In

I used to cut myself in the past to control my depression and I'm having the urge to start cutting again. How can I feel better...

Pregnancy Feelings

I'm pregnant and should be happy, but I find myself unusually sad. Is this normal?

Friend in a Funk

My friend hasn't been herself lately and I'm worried that she's struggling with depression. How can I reach out without prying?

Intimate Insecurity

Dear Hoopers support a young woman facing the pains of her early life trauma

MIA Roommate

My roommate has been sketchy the past few weeks and he's a month behind on rent. How can I get him to do his part?

Helpless in My Marriage

I feel desperate to leave my marriage but feel helpless to do anything. How can I get myself out of here?

Downstairs Visitor Has Me Worried

When I went to visit my boyfriend last weekend he had a lady friend crashing downstairs. He said she was just a friend but I'm nervous....

Loss of Libido

My boyfriend's interest in sex is gone and he blames it on his depression.

Stalked by My Partner’s Ex-Girlfriend

Ever since first dating, our relationship has been followed by a nasty shadow in the shape of my partner's ex-girlfriend. For months we endured 2am phone...

Wedding Doubts

During an argument my fiancé said that we should call off the wedding. I'm hurt and scared. Can I still trust him?

Long Distance Fear

Faith, Family, and Future Confusion

We Lost our Zing

Partner’s Sexual Guilt

Dad is a Third Wheel

I Was the Other Woman and I Didn’t Know It

In-Laws, Am I Right?

Miscarriage Heartbroken

My Girlfriend Broke Up With Me But We Still Live Together

Fighting for Family

Depressed Relationship