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  • Long Distance Fear

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  • Faith, Family, and Future Confusion

    Family, Relationships

  • We Lost our Zing

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  • Partner’s Sexual Guilt

    Relationships, Sex

  • Dad is a Third Wheel

    Family, Relationships

  • I Was the Other Woman and I Didn’t Know It

    Guys, Relationships, Unhealthy Attraction

  • In-Laws, Am I Right?

    Family, marriage, Relationships

  • Miscarriage Heartbroken

    marriage, Relationships, Unhealthy Attraction

  • My Girlfriend Broke Up With Me But We Still Live Together

    Home, Relationships

  • Fighting for Family

    Family, Relationships


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Dad is a Third Wheel

My boyfriend (I’ll call Jeff) and I have been together for 7 years, and started dating at 18. We both live with our parents, and recently...

Broken Heart Lifestyle

Hello! I’m 40 and full of energy. I’m growing my own company and doing yoga and running with my dogs. I have been in love four...

Facebook Politics

Every time I look at Facebook I am overwhelmed by the politics and end up leaving angry and frustrated. Should I log off?

Young and Desperate

I'm a 22 year old college senior and I am completely in love with one of my professors, who is probably twice my age. I know...

Long Distance Fear

After my boyfriend and I went to different colleges, he hooked up with other girls since he didn't think we were "exclusive." We're very much back...

Spouse of Overspender

We have no money in the bank and my husband keeps spending. How do I get him to start saving?

Stalked by My Partner’s Ex-Girlfriend

Ever since first dating, our relationship has been followed by a nasty shadow in the shape of my partner's ex-girlfriend. For months we endured 2am phone...

Dick Pics Got Me Stressed

My fiancé sent a dick pic to another woman online. Should I let it go?

Lost Desire for My Husband

After our son's birth I lost my sexual desire for my husband and haven't been able to get it back. Now it's several years later and...

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Dear Hoopers encourage a husband to find safe space when his marriage becomes too toxic

Depressed Relationship

My boyfriend has depression and says that he should take meds but doesn't. He's ashamed of his mental illness and claims that pills would only reaffirm...

Depressed Messages from a Struggling Soldier

My veteran brother-in-law is struggling with depression and suicidal thoughts. What do I say when he reaches out to me?

Worthy and Torn

I know I'm high-maintenance and I also know I'm worthy of love and my needs being met.

Introvert Alone Time Causes Conflict

My boyfriend thinks I don't love him when I want time alone and is very critical of me for doing so. Is this reasonable for me...

Pregnancy Feelings

I'm pregnant and should be happy, but I find myself unusually sad. Is this normal?

Relationships

FOMO Has Me in a Frenzy

I have a terrible case of FOMO and it is really taking a toll on me.

2 Women, Big Problems

After my wife and I separated, I found new love. Now my wife wants to work things out and I'm torn up about what do do....

I Was the Other Woman and I Didn’t Know It

For some reason after all this time I did online research and found out that he was married...but I don't know when and I'm not sure...

Love Leaving Me Behind

This summer I met a great guy whom I've spent every waking hour. He is about to begin traveling and wants to break ties. Is...

Professor Trouble

Dear Hoopers help a college student figure out how to respond to a professor who extends a late night invitation

Conflicted about Tying the Knot

My boyfriend of 6 years is ready to get married and have kids. I'm not sure?

Work

Stuck in the South

Sleeping with my Sexually Confused Coworker

Lost Boyfriend

Confused by Cheating Coworker

Teeth Grinder

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