Dear Hoopers

Faith, Family, and Future Confusion

In all of our discussions about how to raise future children, we came to the agreement that they would be raised with "both sides". After he...

Stumbling Over Words of Condolence

I stumbled over expressing my condolences and feel like I made things worse. Should I reach back out to try again?

Young and Desperate

I'm a 22 year old college senior and I am completely in love with one of my professors, who is probably twice my age. I know...

Painful Potential

I was injured in a car accident two years ago, which developed into chronic pain. Now this chronic pain is costing my job...

2 Women, Big Problems

After my wife and I separated, I found new love. Now my wife wants to work things out and I'm torn up about what do do....

Confused by Cheating Coworker

I think my coworker is cheating on her husband with someone at work. I wish it was with me.

I Want to Help

Dear Hoopers advise a fitness conscious man to tread lightly on giving diet advice to colleagues

Crazy and Obsessed

An obsession over a guy bonded me and my girlfriend together. Now that he's gone, how do we talk about anything else?

Leave Out the Only Child Mentality

My boyfriend can often times be irresponsible but he has helped me to slow down and smell the roses. How can I get him to be...

Sexless Marriage

I'm a fit and young woman and yet my husband doesn't want to have sex with me. We had great sex when we were dating but...

Too Much Food

Dear Hoopers advise a young lady struggling with binge eating

S-Town: A Podcast for our Mental Health

S-Town allows us to enter one man’s life in a way that might save our own. John McLemore was a gift to his world and to...

Confused and Cautious

My husband just got a 2nd DUI and won't stop drinking. What can I do?

Friend in a Funk

My friend hasn't been herself lately and I'm worried that she's struggling with depression. How can I reach out without prying?

Hopeless to Gaming

What do you do when your boyfriend loves gaming more than you?

Depressed Messages from a Struggling Soldier

My veteran brother-in-law is struggling with depression and suicidal thoughts. What do I say when he reaches out to me?

Confused by Cheating Coworker

I think my coworker is cheating on her husband with someone at work. I wish it was with me.

Depressed Relationship

My boyfriend has depression and says that he should take meds but doesn't. He's ashamed of his mental illness and claims that pills would only reaffirm...

Wife Trying to Forget the Impossible

Before my husband and I got married, he slept with my sister. I found out when I found the pictures.

Girlfriend vs. Vacation

I want a vacation for just the two of us. My girlfriend wants to take a long trip to introduce me to her family. Help!

Dead End

After my breakup from a serious relationship, I found a new guy during my "finding myself" phase. At first we said that we would take things...

Criticized

Dear Hoopers encourage a husband to find safe space when his marriage becomes too toxic

Long Distance Fear

Faith, Family, and Future Confusion

We Lost our Zing

Partner’s Sexual Guilt

Dad is a Third Wheel

I Was the Other Woman and I Didn’t Know It

In-Laws, Am I Right?

Miscarriage Heartbroken

My Girlfriend Broke Up With Me But We Still Live Together

Fighting for Family

Depressed Relationship