Dear Hoopers

Smoking Fetish

My husband has an obsession/fetish when a woman smokes cigarettes. He fantasizes about me smoking ALL DAY, EVERY DAY.

Future Cat Lady

I keep going on dates with no success. I feel like giving up. Am I destined to become a future cat lady?

Politically Divided

Dear Hoopers give a lesson on how to survive politics at the family reunion

How Long Do I Wait

I love my boyfriend but he is tied up in a gnarly divorce and isn't sure if he can ever commit to marrying me. How long...

Secret Photos

I found 47 secret nude photos that my boyfriend took of his female roommate. When I confronted him all he could say was “he didn’t know...

I Want to Help

Dear Hoopers advise a fitness conscious man to tread lightly on giving diet advice to colleagues

22 years and now what

My husband cheated on me with a younger woman and told me that he wasn't attracted to me anymore. Then, he told me that he wanted...

Husband in Doubt

My wife had an abortion before we were together. She told me right from the start and I thought I was over it, but it keeps...

Cheated and Chased

My boyfriend of 6 months drunkenly initiated a kiss with a random girl at a party. His friend walked in and interrupted them. I broke up...

Next Door Concern

Dear Hoopers give counsel on how to navigate a noisy neighbor with concerns of partner violence

Confused and Cautious

My husband just got a 2nd DUI and won't stop drinking. What can I do?

Overly Negative Friend is Hurting My Mental Health

I have a friend that I love dearly but her constant negativity is dragging me down

Too Much Food

Dear Hoopers advise a young lady struggling with binge eating

More Plastic

Dear Hoopers counsel a young woman addicted to plastic surgery

Too Sensitive for Therapy

Negative comments mess me up for days and I'm afraid it is sabotaging my relationship. I want to go to therapy but am afraid I will...

1-2-3-4-5

Dear Hoopers advise a man struggling with obsessions and compulsions

Invisible Girl

Sometimes I just feel so invisible with my "boyfriend." Why does he have to seek other girls' attention when I give him my 150%? I've always...

We Lost our Zing

I've been married for 7 years, but I do not love my husband the same way that I used to. I mean I like him more...

Young and Desperate

I'm a 22 year old college senior and I am completely in love with one of my professors, who is probably twice my age. I know...

Divorce with Regret

Since my ex-husband's wife became critically ill, he started reaching out to me for support and just to talk. I am thinking he is letting me...

Bonus Mom to an Infant

I fell in love with a man going through a divorce. Then I found out that his soon to be ex-wife was pregnant. Fast forward and...

Booty Call on Hold

My ex-boyfriend says he only wants a booty call. But I want a relationship. Should I sleep with him?

Long Distance Fear

Faith, Family, and Future Confusion

We Lost our Zing

Partner’s Sexual Guilt

Dad is a Third Wheel

I Was the Other Woman and I Didn’t Know It

In-Laws, Am I Right?

Miscarriage Heartbroken

My Girlfriend Broke Up With Me But We Still Live Together

Fighting for Family

Depressed Relationship