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  • Long Distance Fear

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    Family, Relationships

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    Relationships, Sex

  • Dad is a Third Wheel

    Family, Relationships

  • I Was the Other Woman and I Didn’t Know It

    Guys, Relationships, Unhealthy Attraction

  • In-Laws, Am I Right?

    Family, marriage, Relationships

  • Miscarriage Heartbroken

    marriage, Relationships, Unhealthy Attraction

  • My Girlfriend Broke Up With Me But We Still Live Together

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  • Fighting for Family

    Family, Relationships


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DM Drama

I think my boyfriend is cheating on me, but should I trust the other woman warning me through my DMs or my boyfriend?

Sex Site Betrayal

I am 2 months into marriage and I found out that my husband has been secretly visiting an online sex hookup website. I am devastated and...

Stalked by My Partner’s Ex-Girlfriend

Ever since first dating, our relationship has been followed by a nasty shadow in the shape of my partner's ex-girlfriend. For months we endured 2am phone...

Hopeless to Gaming

What do you do when your boyfriend loves gaming more than you?

Don’t Facebook My Baby

My sister posted some nude photos of my baby to facebook. I know she regularly posts photos of her children but I just don't feel comfortable...

Left Out in the Cold

Dear Hoopers advise a neighbor worried about the dog next door

Blurry Saturday Night

Last Saturday night was a blur for me and I ended up in my guy friend's bed. I don't know what happened but I want to...

Leave Out the Only Child Mentality

My boyfriend can often times be irresponsible but he has helped me to slow down and smell the roses. How can I get him to be...

My Friend is Not My Enemy: The Power of Empathy in a Divided World

In a time of political upheaval, we must connect with those with whom we disagree.

To Crush or Not

My crush is a "f*ckboy" and I don't want to be hurt. Should I date my guy friend instead?

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Depression Cutting In

I used to cut myself in the past to control my depression and I'm having the urge to start cutting again. How can I feel better...

Worthy and Torn

I know I'm high-maintenance and I also know I'm worthy of love and my needs being met.

Friend in a Funk

My friend hasn't been herself lately and I'm worried that she's struggling with depression. How can I reach out without prying?

Overly Negative Friend is Hurting My Mental Health

I have a friend that I love dearly but her constant negativity is dragging me down

Relationships

In-Laws, Am I Right?

My new husband's family deals with a very dysfunctional and demanding personality who often engages in manipulation and argumentative behavior. As a new in-law to this...

Drunk Driving Roommate

My roommate won't stop drinking and driving. I think she's going to hurt herself or someone else and I don't know what to do.

My Beautiful Boyfriend and My Racist Mother

I can finally say I've found my prince charming. The only problem is that he's black and my mom is pretty racist.

Overly Negative Friend is Hurting My Mental Health

I have a friend that I love dearly but her constant negativity is dragging me down

My Girlfriend Broke Up With Me But We Still Live Together

My girlfriend broke up with me about 5 months ago, but we have decided to live together for the time being until we sell our house...

2 Women, Big Problems

After my wife and I separated, I found new love. Now my wife wants to work things out and I'm torn up about what do do....

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